Let Them Sing
EXP: 155,108, Level: 17
Level completed: 18%,
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Originally Posted by
Lye
Accepting one today. Move out is roughly on 5/4/18. Leaving us three weeks to pack and get all this shit done. No word on other property. Nerves overclocked. Waiting for more info.
Also broke news to my mother and she lost her mind. Made it about her, that I don't care and rather be further away, that she's going to die alone. My little brother is trying to mediate the situation but is also telling me I'm wrong. More stress that's not needed and negatively impacting my relationship with my family. They should ideally be supportive. I'm not happy.
I went through a very similar experience when I moved out of my dad's house and in with my now wife. It really took the shine off it all, made us feel like we were somehow stabbing him in the back when all he did was go on about how we just wanted to get out of his life, and didn't give a fuck about him. Work and life in general was hell with him for so long but we fought it, made it all our own and eventually he came round.
Time is a great healer. It's stressful as fuck, it causes diplomatic nightmares but eventually people get used to it and bridges get built again. Now my dad gets to see his grandkid and me every week, and everyone is happy, but by god that first year was torture.
If you want to talk it out, hit me up, and stay strong with your eyes on the prize.
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